Showing posts with label June 15. Show all posts
Showing posts with label June 15. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Gone Fishin'

Kory and I spent the day trying to wrap up some loose ends. It felt like the first days we were here, trying to get settled. Now we are working on our exit strategy. We went to the car licensing place to find out what happens if we just let our tabs expire, and various such things like that. Norway has so many different systems that unless we ask, we can end up paying lots of money for the silliest things. So we’ve learned to ask. It took all morning.




The biggest (and most expensive) challenge I face now is the Norwegian bedding system. In America we use matching sheets, a few blankets and a bedspread. Norwegians just use a fitted sheet over the mattress and a duvet cover with the down filled comforter tucked neatly inside for the top half. They have thick down for winter, thin for summer. The bottom sheet shows (but never matches the top half), and they just fold the duvet/comforter in half the long way, and call it good. It’s easy to make the bed, that’s for sure, as there is no tucking and straightening involved, but I like what I’m used to. We haven’t switched over to the Norwegian system because we like sleeping under the same covers so we can snuggle. In Norway, every person has their own duvet, so even couples sleeping together in a bed, don’t share the covers. Kaleb likes to crawl into bed with us in the morning, so that system would leave him out in the cold, as there are no covers in the middle of the bed. We brought our American bedding with us, but now that we are leaving, we need to convert all the beds so if we rent this place out, people get what they are used to. There are a lot of pieces to buy, so I’m back to shopping again, but it’s not the kind of things that can be found at a second hand store. Poor me, literally.



Kory was able to finish putting oil on our deck, so at least that task was completed this afternoon and the wood should be well protected for another year. I pretty much wrapped up the search for dead relatives for my friend Stuart. He’s got to be one of the best documented Norwegians there are. It helps if someone comes from a long line of farm owners that don’t move around much, because the records are then so easy to find. I’ve been trying to find information for two other friends with Norwegian ancestry too, but they come from the poor side of the tracks. There was a definite class system at one time in Norway and the farm owner’s children would NEVER marry into the family of the farm workers. The farm owners are well documented because they’ve paid taxes since Viking times, but the farm workers were just workers who owned nothing to tax (they were like indentured servants, or slaves on the farm) and they often moved from farm to farm, so their records are pretty sketchy. But it was a big thrill for me to have such a phenomenal run of luck in finding so many of Stuart’s ancestors, I just couldn’t stop myself. I wish I had such a complete family tree. There is no doubt where that man comes from or that his roots run deep around here.



Kaleb was restricted from going to his classmate’s neighborhood after school today because of how poorly he behaved this past weekend, but lucky for him, Tobias doesn’t live there. Tobias called and asked him to come over, so they spent a gorgeous afternoon sitting inside playing a new Wii game. What has childhood been reduced to?



Tobias’ step-dad, Bjørn, invited us all out to go fishing this evening on the fjord, so at least we all got some kind of authentic Norwegian experience out of the day. It was a gorgeous evening. We went out around eight o’clock and got back around eleven. Norwegians do a lot of things late at night, especially in the summer when it’s still light out. Kory brought along his short fishing pole (see photo of Kaleb using it), but never caught any fish with it. Bjørn used just a fishing line wrapped around a hunk of plastic and he caught five fish at a time with it. No pole required, he just pulled the line up out of the water with his bare hands. It was so basic, but it worked wonders. They just get down to business around here when it comes to fishing. It’s not about the sport, or comfort and convenience, it’s about results.



All in all there were sixteen fish that bit the dust tonight (see photo of Tobias with one of them in one hand, and his fishing line in the other.) I felt bad for them as they squiggled and squirmed in the bucket. I hate watching things die, especially if I’m going to eat it later. According to Bjørn, they make great “kvelds mat” (night food). He said as a kid they used to go out and catch these “Sei” fish, clean them, chop them into three chunks, boil them, remove the bones and skin, then spread the meat out on bread and top it off with a little mayo. Nothing could taste better, he says. He licked his lips after he told me that. It was too late, and we weren’t hungry enough to do it at midnight tonight, but I’m pretty sure I know what we’ll be eating tomorrow.

Monday, June 15, 2009

The Countdown Is On


Another sleepless night last night made for a good excuse not to go to school today. I tried to sleep in, but couldn’t. I had to get up and make Kaleb’s lunch so I just stayed up and enjoyed a good cup of Starbuck’s coffee. It helped only a little. I’ve been in a daze all day. I don’t know why I’m not sleeping, but it’s definitely a trend I hope stops soon.

Kory’s employer didn’t have work suitable for him today (meaning, all the work they had would kill his back), so he got to stay home today too, except Odd’s bedroom remodel was calling. Kory didn’t think he’d have time to drop the ceiling before we left, but since he had today free from his other job, he was able to put a smile on Odd’s face. He was gone all day.

Once Kaleb was off to school I used the quiet time at home to get a few projects done. I updated all our “exit instructions” I call them – what to do if we both die at the same time. With all the unrest in the world, venturing out into Europe might not be the safest thing we can do, so I want to be prepared just in case. The last thing I want to think about if I’m on my way out – is that I didn’t tell anyone what to do with my grandmother’s china. Ha ha, but kinda true. Once Kaleb was born both Kory and I updated our wills and wrote as much information as we thought would be helpful to someone that might have to clean up after us, as it were. So at least that task is off my plate and I have a few more years before I have to worry about updating that file again. I also used the time to sort through some pictures. I’m sure I’ve taken over ten thousand photos since being here and I’m trying to pick out some of the better ones in case anyone is interested in seeing them. What a job. They always say computers make our lives easier, but I think it’s way more labor intensive to sit and sift through photos I wouldn’t have taken in the first place if I knew I had to pay to get the roll of film developed. It’s just too easy to point and click with a digital camera, when it’s “free.” But the time it takes to sort through them afterwards is way more costly than photo processing. We can always get more money, but we can’t always get more time. Time is a finite thing and we never know when ours is up. Ugh.

I wanted to pack up Kaleb’s room today but realized I needed his input to do it since I don’t know what he wants to take home, what can stay here, what he needs for the road trip and what he wants to get rid of, so that project had to wait until he was home from school and done with his homework. But now his room is nearly empty so I feel good about that. He came home pretty excited today as his homework plan showed no homework after Tuesday, so he sat at the table and did all of today’s and tomorrow’s work and then let out a whoop and a holler that he will NEVER have homework again because it’s back to homeschooling! I’m glad he’s looking forward to that.

I had to use a little time today to clean the house because tonight I hosted the Bible study group I started attending just recently. They are a fine group of women from the Filadelfia Church (see photo – taken at 10:30pm tonight – notice how light it is outside) and we had a nice time together tonight, “soaking,” praying for each other and reading the Bible. They all wanted to pray for me to thank God for having me in their group – then they prayed God would bring me back to Norway soon. I wonder how God handles those prayers when I know there are some in America praying we come back there and don’t leave again. It must be a tough job to be God.

Kaleb and Kory went over to visit the Tantes tonight while I had a house full of women. Kory offered to take Kaleb bowling or swimming or to the movies or fishing, bike riding, for a drive… he kept on and on with the suggestions and Kaleb didn’t want to do a single one. Finally Kory said if he wouldn’t pick something then he would decide himself, so he decided they would go visit the aunts. Kaleb flipped out. He screamed and slammed doors and carried on like it was the end of the world. He absolutely, positively did NOT want to go visit the aunts, but he had to anyway. Ya snooze, ya lose. He brought along a couple of books for entertainment while Kory was busy chatting away. Kaleb was not a happy camper.

We have just ten more days here in Aalesund before we drive out of town. I’m wondering what the next chapter of our lives will be like and just how much we’ve been changed by this experience, without even realizing it. Hopefully it’s all for the good.